Adult dating moms for daughters

Anna spoke clearly enough, but I focused on the impending reality of those last four words. What were you saying? How could I improve my relationship with my adult daughter and point her to Christ? Recently, I asked Anna, now 22 and a senior at Covenant College, to give me nine things a mother needs to know about her adult daughter. So she and her friends crowded around a lunch table. Much of what they said, to me, looks a lot like the practical application of Ephesians 6.

Daughters take in more than you may realize. You were our first teachers. We watch how you treat your friends and strangers, but most importantly, our fathers. We learn from you what a godly wife looks like and how men should treat women. Yes, we learn from you, not just from our dads, how men should treat women. Mothers who tolerate destructive relationships often produce daughters who enter abusive relationships.

Put away your smartphone, your to-do list, and your keys. We often need love, not advice. We have something to share. While you are busy sharing your wisdom, remember there is much we can teach you too. That dress you paid too much for? It looks just like the outdated one you already have in your closet. You may know a lot about dressing modestly, but we know something about fashion. If we pool our knowledge, we both might end up looking better.

As we grow into adult shoes, asking our opinion helps us call you friend as well as mother. We get so frustrated when you hover, critique, and worry about every little thing. If each time this happened were a brick, we could build the Great Wall of China.

Be it something as simple as cleaning the kitchen or as important as making a career choice, remember you have already raised us. Trust the God who is always in control. It must be true, then. We need to learn forgiveness by seeing you ask for it. You taught us we are all sinners, and Jesus stands ready to forgive. If you go first, we will follow. Be courageous by never being afraid to admit when you are wrong.

Rumor has it, this skill will come in handy when we get married—if we get married—but we digress. It does not matter how old we are, we hunger for your words of encouragement. And it does invade us—all the time.

Leave the boys alone. We know you want us to get married, and most of us want to be married, too. In fact, your well-intentioned nagging can cripple a dating relationship. Oh, and the side comments and jokes hurt—a lot. We get enough dating pressure from the world.

Ask about our spiritual walk. We want your expertise and opinion. Accountability works best when we feel safe. You were the first person to shield and protect us. And we will have them, just like you did. We forget to thank you often.

We know moms are incredible human beings, and we fail to thank you often. So moms, there you have it, from the younger generation to us older. May we listen and take it to heart.


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