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Outside circumstances and an unsupportive family or nerves can understandably make you not want to come out. Becoming open with your sexuality is a process. Everyone needs to do at their own pace. My first two relationships were both before I was out. At times this was like trying to dodge lasers, Mission Impossible style.

I quickly learned dating someone who is out can bring sympathy and compassion from them, since they used to be in the same predicament. Below are some tips on how to handle dating while in the closet. Either way, he needs to be aware of your boundaries. I remember one date, a first date no less, the POT sat next to me and played with my hand while ordering food.

I spent much of the date with my eyes darting around the room. No relationship works without a great bond of communication, so communicate how you feel early on. Perhaps he has told a friend, perhaps he has told no one. Either way you could take this big step together. I once prepared what I want to say to my friends when I come out, as I am not all the way there yet.

Looking for advice, I texted my then Sugar Daddy. We went out for a great meal and worked on my script together. He helped prepare me for all variables and reactions that may occur when I come out. You should be comfortable with his level of affection, and not attempt to dodge his hugs or small advances.

A dramatic reaction could be very off putting for him and may cause a drastic break up. This is where being upfront about what you are comfortable with becomes key.

Sometimes you have to understand that people want to date someone who is entirely available. Remember that concealing your sexuality might mean you are not that person.

Do you have any tips for Sugaring while in the closet?


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