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Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. And what do I have to show for all that time spent living outside the U. The list goes on, but here are some highlights: A man is a man is a man -- no matter where you meet him. Dating abroad can feel like Groundhog Day, only in different languages.

When I first moved to Buenos Aires and guys kept immediately asking me the same question -- "Es cierto lo que dicen sobre los hombres negros? In Buenos Aires, where there were so few black men, the curiosity, though crudely expressed, was understandable. Then the ice-breaking question became a recurring theme in pretty much every city I visited and lived in, including Cape Town, where black men outnumber white men by a considerable margin.

Dating is a crapshoot everywhere. A man is a man is a man -- no matter how you meet him. The ones you see online are the same ones you see offline. When it comes to speaking English vs. At the time, I spoke even less Spanish, so I guess you could say that we communicated using the language of lust. Plus he loved the Carpenters. Despite his language limitations, he sang along perfectly to "Only Yesterday" and "Yesterday Once More," which made him suitably sensitive. When we hung out a few days later, we had our first-ever conversation in Spanish, and it was like talking to a different guy.

Understanding his language did. Among the things I learned that day: He avoided traveling by car because he thought of them as being generally unsafe. He hated traveling period because, well, what was the point? Online conversations with them have typically begun the way offline ones do -- "Hi. I asked a black American friend who had spent a year living and studying in Cape Town for his take, and he suggested that being abroad and out of their comfort zone might bring out the best in American men.

But from what this same friend told me, when American men return home and log on, No. I still get a little electric jolt every time someone tells me how much he loves Americans. In a strange and occasionally exhilarating way, it makes me even prouder to be an American than I ever was when I was living there.


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